North Carolina (by county)

Alamance
Jason Durham, b. ca 1811, NC; m. (1) Sarah McCracken, (2) Bertha (Unknown) (link)
Lindsey Durham, b. ca 1812, NC; m. (1) Sarah Hatch, (2) Sylvia Shaw (link)
Thomas Durham, b. ca 1804, NC; m. Phoebe Jane Young (link)
Thomas L. (Latta) Durham, b. ca 1818, NC (single in 1850); m. (1) Elizabeth Jones, (2) Mary (Unknown) (link)
Wesley Durham, b. ca 1818 (actually 1800), NC; m. Hannah McAdams (link)

Caswell
John Durham, b. ca 1780, New Jersey; (listed with a Catherine Durham, age 33)
John Durham, b. ca 1778, NC; (listed in the household of Richard and Elizabeth Marr) (link)
Newman Durham, b. ca 1777, VA; m. Catherine Farly (link)
Richard Durham, b. ca 1804, NC; m. Sarah E. Stone (link)
William B. Durham, b. ca 1832, NC; (listed in "Jail"; born in Orange County, NC)

Chatham
Aaron Durham, b. ca 1776, NC; m. (1) Sarah Cates, (2) Rebecca Cates (link)
Elbert S.(Shelmon) Durham, b. ca 1822, NC; m. Sarah Lloyd (link)
Harrison O. Durham, b. ca 1812 (1819), NC; m. (1) Matilda Allen, (2) Etta Jane Allen (3) Elizabeth (Unknown) (link)
Henry H.(Hatch) Durham, b. 1823, NC; m. Elizabeth Martha West (link)
John Durham, b. ca 1789, NC; m. Elizabeth Edwards (link)
John A.(Alexander) Durham, b. ca 1825, NC; m. Sarah (Unknown) (link)
Mark (Bartlett) Durham, b. ca 1817, NC; m. (1) Nancy Durham, (2) Mildred Copeland (link)
Mourning (Durham)(widowed?), b. ca 1817, NC; (living with John and Martha Lacy)
Nathaniel Durham, b. ca 1790, NC; m. Sarah Hatch (link)

Cleveland
Charles Alexander Durham, b. ca 1773, NC (deceased); m. Patience Davis (Link)
Charles C.(Crawford) Durham, b. ca 1815, NC; m. Eunice J. Evans (Link)
David (Dewayne) Durham, b. ca 1808, NC; m. Malinda Hughes (Link)
Edmund Durham, b. ca 1805, NC; m. (1) Mary "Polly" Chisholm Lee, (2) Nancy (Unknown) (Link)
Josiah Durham, b. 1802, NC (deceased?); m. Mary Trout (Link)
Lemuel Durham, b. 1798, NC; m. Temperance Scruggs (Link)
Richard Durham, b. ca 1778, NC (deceased); m. Martha Jane Davis (Link)

Davidson
James Durham, b. ca 1825, NC; m. Elizabeth (Unknown)

Guilford
(William Durham) and Elizabeth (Adams) Durham, b. ca 1830, NC; (listed in the household of Micajah Durham) (Link)
John Durham, b. ca 1802, NC; m. Nancy (Unknown) (Link)
Isaac Durham, b. ca 1815, NC; m. (Unknown) (Link)
Micajah Durham, b. ca 1782 (1792?), m. Nancy Sawyers (deceased) (Link)

Johnston
Henry Durham, b. 1808, NC; m. (1) (Unknown), (2) Martha Shaw (Link)
Jackson Durham, b. ca 1827, NC; (living with Griffin and Cherry Godwin)
James H. Durham, b. 1817, NC; m. Martha A. Bridgers (Link)
Nancy Durham, b. ca 1815, NC; (listed in the household of Nathan and Martha Williams)
Samuel H. Durham, b. ca 1804, NC; m. Elizabeth Stallings (Link)
Thomas Durham, b. ca 1804, NC; m. (1) Zilpha Pearce, (2) Nancy Griswold (Link)
William Durham, b. ca 1802, NC; m. Beady Moore (Link)

Orange
Alvis Durham, b. 1806, NC; m. (1) Susanna (Fossett) Faucett, (2) Catherine Strayhorn (Link)
Archibald Durham, b. ca 1782, NC (deceased); m. (1) Margaret Stroud, (2) Jane Carruthers (Link)
Bartlett (Snipes) Durham, b. ca 1825, NC; (Physician) (Link)
David L. Durham, b. ca 1810, NC; m. Barbara M. Cheek (Link)
Elisha Durham, b. ca 1826, NC; m. Mary Roach (Link)
James Durham, b. ca 1820, NC; m. Mary Ellen Howard (Link)
(James) Mebane Durham, b. ca 1809, NC; m. Elizabeth Lloyd (Link)
Jesse Durham, b. ca 1811, NC; m. Susannah Faucett (Link)
John Durham, b. ca 1785, NC; m. Anna Latta (Link)
Matthew Durham, b. ca 1794, NC; m. (1) Elizabeth Kirk, (2) Matilda M. Willett (Link)
Ruffin Durham, b. ca 1812, NC; (Link)
Sally Durham, b. ca 1806, NC; (Durham may be "maiden" name)
Spencer B. Durham, b. ca 1807, NC; m. Delilah Lloyd (Link)
Susan Durham, b. ca 1790, NC; "Durham", most likely married name; (listed as "insane" in the Poor House)

Rockingham
David Durham, b. ca 1804 Caswell Co., NC; m. Mary Sparks (Link)
George Durham, b. ca 1813, NC; m. (1) Emily Dicken, (2) Nancy Hobbs (3) Lucy Kerns (Link)
Isaac Durham, b. ca 1807, NC; m. Permelia Wilson (Link)
N. (Nathaniel) Durham, b. ca 1828, NC; m. Mary Jane Durham (Link)
Phillip (Philomon) Durham, b. ca 1818, NC; m. Fereby "Pheby" Burgess (Link)
William Durham, b. ca 1808, NC; m. (Unknown) (Link)

Rutherford
Achilles Durham, b. 1795, NC; m. Nancy (Unknown) (Link)
Charles (Bunson) Durham, b. ca 1797, NC; m. Mary Scruggs (Link)
Micajah Durham, b. ca 1805, NC; m. Esther McDowell Baxter (Link)
Thomas Durham, b. ca 1810, NC; (listed in the household of Jesse and Mary Covel)

Stokes
Alfred (Martin) Durham, b. ca 1823, NC; m. (1) Sarah Ann Simmons, (2) Nancy (Unknown) (Link)
Archilaus (Archibald) Durham, b. ca 1777, VA; m. Nancy Vaughn (Link)
Austin Durham, b. ca 1802, VA; m. Parthenia "Peny" Shelton (Link)
Gregory Durham, b. 1746, VA (deceased); m. Elizabeth Shelton (listed as 100 years old) (Link)
(James) Nathan Durham, b. ca 1825, VA (NC?); m. Eliza Jane Hall (Link)
William Durham, b. ca 1775, VA (deceased); m. Susannah Hatcher (Link)

Surry
Henry Durham, b. ca 1801, VA; m. Paulina Jane Chandler (Link)
Moses Durham, b. ca 1821, NC; m. Mary Jane (Penright) Pendry (Link)
Nancy Durham, b. ca 1817, (1810), VA; (may never have married or widowed?) (Link)
(Sarah) Sally Durham, b. ca 1786, VA; (living with Nancy Durham) (Link)
William (Henderson) Durham, b. ca 1824 (1814), NC or VA; m. Pheobe Lawson (Link)
William Durham, b. ca 1791, VA; m. (1) Rhoda Sawyers, (2) Nancy (Penright) Pendry (Link)

Wayne
Dawson Durham, b. 1822, NC; m. Julia E. Smith (Link)