Virginia/West Virginia (by county)

Albemarle
David Durham, b. ca 1785 (1795?), VA; m. Mary (Unknown) (link)
John Durham, b. ca 1817, VA; m. Elizabeth Burgess (listed with daughter "Susan", age 2) (link)
John Durham, b. ca 1817, VA; m. Elizabeth (Unknown) (may be same John as above - "Robert" Durham, age 1 is listed with this family.)
Mary Durham, b. ca 1818, VA; (listed in the household of Sarah Clemants, age 78)
Watt Durham, b. ca 1832, VA; (listed in the household of John and Elizabeth Durham) (link)
William Durham, b. ca 1832, VA; (listed in the household of Walt Mullins) (link)

Appomattox
Frederick Durham, age 9, Walker Durham, age 6, John R. Durham, age 5, b. VA; (listed in the household of Campbell and Mildred Wright (Mildred is 28 years old - most likely a "Durham");
William W.(Wilson) C. Durham, b. ca 1815, VA; m. Finetta R. Brown (link)

Cumberland
Jacob A. Durham, b. ca 1805, VA; m. Elizabeth Allen (link)

Essex
Charles Durham, b. ca 1842, VA; m. Mary (Unknown) (listed in household of Nancy Minter) (link)
George Durham, b. ca 1807, VA; m. Mary Sophronia Jones (link)
Jacob Durham, b. ca 1796, VA; m. Catherine Covington (link)
James Durham, b. ca 1812, VA; m. (1) Harriet Minter, (2) Frances Jane Taylor, (3) Lucy Ellen Read (link)
James Durham, b. ca 1780, VA; (Listed with Elizabeth Durham, age 39, and Catherine Durham, age 5)
Joseph Durham, b. ca 1797, VA; m. Martha Brooks (link)
Joseph Durham, b. ca 1815, VA; m. Catherine (Unknown)
Thomas Durham, b. ca 1790, VA; m. Ann (Unknown) (link)
Thomas Durham, b. ca ???? (possibly the same Thomas above); m. Nancy Ann Brizendine (link)
Thomas Durham, b. ca 1825, VA; m. Rachel (maiden name possibly "Garrett")(listed in household of "(Nancy) Ann (Brizendine) Durham (link)

Fluvanna
David W. Durham, b. ca 1804, VA; m. (1) Elvira Jane Borden, (2) Frances A. (Unknown) (link)

Franklin
David Durham, b. ca 1792, VA; (possibly a minister who never married) (link)
Jane (Durham), b. ca 1802, VA; (husband unknown) (link)
Jane Durham, b. ca 1829, VA; (listed in the household of Joseph and Sarah Burrass)
Mary Durham, b. ca 1805, VA; (listed near David Durham above, living with Catherine Prater)
William Durham, b. ca 1821, VA; (Blacksmith, listed in household of Randolph and Celia Chitwood)

Halifax
James Durham, b. ca 1831, VA; m. Sarah (Unknown) (listed in household of Solomon Angle) (James may be son of Mary E. Durham, below)
Josephus Durham, b. ca 1825, VA; m. Caroline N. (Unknown)(Possibly "Clay" or "Poindexter") (Son "Eugene" is listed with M. E. Durham, age 50, in the 1860 Census for Halfiax)
Labourn (Labon) Durham, b. ca 1774, VA; m. Lucinda Williams (link)
Mary E. Durham, b. ca 1804, VA; (listed with Mary J., age 14, and Harriet E., age 11)

Hanover
Sarah (Durham), b. ca 1776, VA (black)

Henrico
John Durham, b. ca 1791, VA; m. Sarah (Unknown), b. 1793, Pennsylvania
Lucy Durham, b. ca 1805, VA; (listed in the Richmond City Poor House)

Henry
Jesse Durham, b. ca 1798, VA; m. Elizabeth "Betsy" Patterson (link)

Kanawha (West Virginia)
Jesse Dearham (Durham), b. ca 1831, VA; m. Priscilla Hunter (listed in the household of George and Sally Belcher in 1850) (link)

King and Queen
Charles (Samuel) Durham, b. ca 1842, VA; (listed in household of Nancy Minter) ***This is the same family also found in Essex County*** (link)
Emily G. Durham, b. ca 1826, VA; (listed in the household of Thomas R. Graham)
Ann E. Durham, b. ca 1828, VA; (listed in the household of Thomas R. Graham)
Fanny Durham, b. ca 1822, VA; (listed in the household of John L. Oliver, age 30)
Juliet Durham, b. ca 1813, VA; (listed with child "Jane" age 4, both living in the household of Thomas Cleavely)
Polly Durham, b. ca 1772, VA; (maiden name unknown)

Lunenburg
Jno (John) Durham, b. ca 1820, VA; (Listed in the household of Jas L. Hill)

Mecklenburg
Polly (Durham) (black), b. ca 1792, VA;

Montgomery
(John) Robert Durham, b. ca 1805, NC; m. Elizabeth Trollinger (link)

Morgan (West Virginia)
George Durham, b. 1806, VA (deceased); m. Rosannah Ambrose (link)
George Durham, b. ca 1835, VA; (listed in the household of Isaiah and Catherine Buck)
John Durham, b. ca 1832, VA; (listed in the household of Isaiah and Catherine Buck)
Joseph Durham, b. ca 1775, NC (deceased); m. Frances Waddell, ca 1784, VA (link)
Mary Durham, b. ca 1835, VA; (listed in the household of Isaiah and Catherine Buck)

Patrick
William (R.) Durham, b. ca 1829, NC; m. Pauline Fry (link)

Pittsylvania
John Durham, b. ca 1798, VA; m. Sarah "Sally" Hawker (link)
Bethena Durham, b. ca 1800, VA; m. Sterling Scott
Mary "Polly" Durham, b. ca 1812, VA; m. Burton Reynolds

Scott
Isaac B. Durham, b. ca 1776, NC; m. Elizabeth "Betsy" Baldwin (link)
Isaac S. Durham, b. ca 1815, VA; m. (1) Anna Stamper, (2) Dicy Balding (Baldwin?) (link)
James S. Durham, b. ca 1805, VA; m. Anna Stamper (??? Marriage records show Anna Stamper married to Isaac S. Durham) (link)
Sarah "Sally" H. (Durham), b. ca 1808, VA; (listed as head of household)
Thomas Durham, b. ca 1800, VA (deceased in 1850??); m. Jane Walling (link)

Taylor
Jacob Durham, b. ca 1772, New Jersey; m. Mary (Unknown)
James Durham, b. ca 1794, VA; m. Mary (Unknown)